You want to look as good as you possibly can. You want to step out every day and stride and march down the street with every head turning as you pass. But no matter how much confidence you might have, no matter happy you think you are with the way you are, we all have days when we just don’t feel like emerging from our rooms at all.
This kind of attitude is not a problem — you’re allowed to feel self-conscious. But too much emphasis on how others perceive you can hurt your self-esteem, and there is nothing more important in your self-development than having solid self-esteem and love for yourself.
On those bad hair days, those days where that one pimple finally subsides only to be replaced by a more visible beacon on your forehead, or the days where just nothing works, you will feel that your entire. But have no fear, there are solutions all across the spectrum that can make you confident to step out and wow the world on a consistent basis.
It could be that you simply do not have the right wardrobe for your figure. Without proper stylist consultation, you could be hindering your glow and potential by merely picking out the wrong outfits all these years.
Consider discussing with professionals who have years of experience in changing people’s lives, by just changing what they wear. This doesn’t mean you need to throw out your favorite clothes, but instead mixing and matching styles that will work for you, regardless of your budget. Don’t worry about anybody else, find what works for you and own it.
Need help from a fashion consultant? We highly recommend Beverly of Project Bee Wardrobe Consulting.
Going Under The Knife
If you feel that you are a lost cause due to weight or feel like you will never look like the girls you see in magazines, then don’t worry. The potential for looking like a knock out is out there but it requires one very important concept: you should never desire to look like anyone else, only a better version of yourself. Seek out advice from doctors who will help you through deciding the best course of action for you to take; the changes you may desire to make to your appearance may be achievable through healthy exercise or diet.
If you feel the need to go under the knife, then go for it but be smart about it. Only do it because YOU want to, not because anyone else is pressing you or you feel that you must look a certain way to be accepted by society. Your happiness is more important than the opinion of others. Furthermore, there are also doctors that use non-invasive methods that can make recommendations for safer options depending on your needs.
Want to speak to a specialist about your options. We recommend the pros over at www.baybariatrics.com that can start you on the way to better self-esteem.
Sorcery, Sort Of
Of course, there isn’t always a need to go under the knife. Instead, consider researching makeup and contouring tricks that can change the way you look without having to spend excess amounts on hospital care.
Searching online for video tutorials will ease a lot of the early struggles you have with perfecting your technique. Once you have mastered the craft, the possibilities are endless. We have all seen those videos of makeup transformations, and following online forums for further advice can introduce you a creative and supportive community that just wants to help everyone look their best.
Just like some of you, we also are YouTube junkies. Here are some of our favorite YouTube vloggers that can help you master contouring and other makeup magic that will transform your look in an instant: 15 Of The Best YouTubers For Women of Color To Follow
It is understandable that you want to look your absolute best wherever you go. We all have days when we don’t feel up to getting out of the house, but conquering your insecurities through changes in lifestyle, fashion or anything else will give you that confidence to take on every day with the vigor and drive to impress everybody, but most importantly yourself. Go get ’em girl!
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