Facebook Twitter Instagram
    Facebook Twitter Instagram Pinterest
    BAUCE
    JOIN THE SQUAD
    • Hustle
    • Believe
    • Earn
    • Live
    • Profiles
    • Community
      • JOIN THE BAUCE SQUAD
      • LOGIN TO THE BAUCE SQUAD
    • Events
    • About
      • Our Team
      • Advertise
      • Jobs
      • Contact
    BAUCE
    Live

    Is It Time to Ask Him Out?

    By Kerri ByamJuly 30, 20163 Mins Read
    Share
    Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest Email

    In the last few years, women have been making more money than men. In that same amount of time, more women have been graduating with higher education degrees. In this new era, we are doing everything by ourselves and for ourselves. After all, we can afford to!

    Does that mean it is time to take matters into our own hands and ask men out?

    Some men may find it hot for a woman to walk up to him and tell him how she feels. There are also guys who would never say a thing to a woman if he had the opportunity to. Is it time for us to step up to the plate and arrange a time and place? What about his phone number?

    It may offer some perspective and understanding for what men go through on a daily basis. Men are expected to take initiative and they are the ones who deal with the possibility of rejection even after they have gathered enough courage to approach you.

    What about the guys who like the old-fashioned way of courting? Some guys revel in opening doors, paying for checks, pulling out and pushing in chairs, and of course asking us out on a date. Will they be offended that we take a stand and make a silent, but pronounced statement that we are very capable of doing those things, too?

    If there are old-fashioned men, there are bound to be some old-fashioned women in the crowd. Some women may be wary of this new approach to courtship and dating because they prefer the big romantic gestures from men and would much rather be swept off of their feet than to do the sweeping.

    Some women find it attractive for a man to take initiative. Asking her out on a date is the first step to the attraction that may develop (or smolder, who knows?) into something more.

    On the other end of the spectrum, some women may argue that women are not breakable creatures. We can stand on our own and ask you out if we want to, thank you very much. Men may find it incredibly sexy for a woman to take charge of something that could blossom into a beautiful friendship or relationship. A little courage (and lipstick and/or lip gloss) is all it takes.

    It is the 21st century, ladies. Are you going to be bogged down by tradition? Tradition may be progress for some, but a hindrance for many.

    This is in no way to discourage the old way of courtship. We all have own methods, and at the end of the day, the person we approach may either like or dislike us for asking him out. If he does, that is wonderful. If not, then it is on to the next.

    You may never know what you are missing out on. It is at least worth a try. Who knows? You might even like it.

    Share. Facebook Twitter Pinterest LinkedIn Tumblr Email Reddit WhatsApp
    Previous ArticlePositive Reality T.V. Alternatives
    Next Article Classic Smoky Eye
    Kerri Byam

    Related Posts

    5 Tips For Getting Your Garden Winter-Ready

    July 4, 2022

    How To Deal With Microaggressions On Social Media

    June 29, 2022

    4 Unique Ways To Improve Your Fitness From The Comfort Of Your Own Home

    June 20, 2022
    Add A Comment

    Leave A Reply Cancel Reply

    Your Go To Resources

    How To Truly Break The Cycle of Debt

    It’s Time To Stop Sleeping On Your Credit Score, Sis – Here’s Why

    These Are 15 of the Highest Paying Careers To Pursue

    15 Good Jobs That Women Can Do From Anywhere Without Experience

    Here’s How To Trick Yourself Into Saving More Money

    Stay Connected
    • Facebook
    • Twitter
    • Pinterest
    • Instagram
    Facebook Twitter Instagram Pinterest
    • Our Team
    • Contact
    • Advertise
    • Privacy Policy
    • Jobs
    © 2022 BAUCE MEDIA LLC

    Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.