Although brides are the ones who usually take charge of many of the details for a wedding, that doesn’t mean that grooms can’t get involved and have their say on plenty, too.
Whether you want to leave most things for your nuptials up to your partner or make many decisions of your own, it’s worth thinking about ways to surprise your bride with at least one aspect she won’t expect.
Thrilling and delighting your new wife can be a lovely way to start your marriage. Here are some ideas to consider.
Write Her a Sweet Letter for Wedding Morning Delivery
One great idea is to write a sweet letter for your bride that gets delivered to her on the morning of the wedding. Receiving a heartfelt, romantic note that she can take in as she prepares to meet you at the altar can show your sweetheart why you’re the one to marry and remind her why she loves you.
Your letter might talk about how and why you fell in love with her, how the pair of you met, your goals and dreams for the future, what you promise her, and more.
Buy Her a Surprise Gift
You might like to buy something special to surprise your future bride with on the day you exchange wedding wows. The range of gifts you could consider is vast but try to find something meaningful and memorable. You could buy her something old or blue that she can use on the day or lend her one of your prized possessions so she can more easily carry out the “something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue” tradition that many people like to uphold on their wedding days.
Other ideas are buying her a romantic book, such as a pretty hardcover tome of love letters or poems or a special edition of her favorite title, or you might send her a massive bunch of her preferred flowers. You could gift her a piece of jewelry or an artwork you made yourself or got created for her, or even a piece you know she’s had her eye on. No matter what you select, keep your beloved in mind and find something you know relates to who they are and what’s important to them.
Organize an Amazing Fireworks Display for the Wedding Reception
Another idea is to surprise your partner with an impressive fireworks display that goes off at the wedding reception. You could arrange for fireworks such as Roman candles, mortars, fountains, cakes, rockets, etc., to light up the sky right when the two of you are cutting your wedding cake or having your first dance. It could even be a night show that occurs as you exit the wedding together or at any other appropriate time.
Organizing a Luxurious Music Ensemble for Her Special Day
Surprise your bride on your wedding day by organizing a sophisticated and elegant music ensemble to create a magical atmosphere. A string quartet for weddings is a fantastic choice, known for delivering a rich and intimate musical experience. Ensure to select a repertoire that includes her favorite melodies, perhaps even a special song that holds sentimental value for both of you. Coordinate with the wedding planner and venue staff to ensure the ensemble has everything they need for a flawless performance. This thoughtful and grand musical gesture will certainly make her day even more unforgettable and fill the air with romance.
Fly Someone in She Didn’t Expect to See on the Day
Perhaps you know that your fiancé was heartbroken when one of her cherished friends, family members, or other contacts said they didn’t think they could make it to the wedding. If so, why not work your magic to make it happen so they can be there on the special day, and surprise and delight your bride? Pull out all the stops to help the treasured person get there, whether flying or driving them to the venue, helping them organize childcare or pet care so they can get away, or otherwise making it easier for them to attend.
Bring in a Special Entertainer to Perform
An alternative idea is to bring in a special entertainer to perform at your wedding, whether at the ceremony or the reception. Do you know that your bride-to-be has an absolute favorite singer she had always imagined might play at her wedding or a band or DJ she prefers?
Perhaps she’s loved the idea of having a memorable stand-up comedian MC the special event or perform an act, or even a magician, dance troupe, or some other entertainers be on hand. Hiring someone amazing and well-known to your new wife to perform at the wedding will likely have her jaw-dropping and a huge smile lighting up her face.
You might even decide that you want to perform yourself. If so, you could learn a special dance or song, write a poem and present it, play a song on the piano, or otherwise delight your partner with your commitment and skills.
If these top ideas don’t suit you, why not plan a fantastic honeymoon to one of your bride’s bucket-list destinations, get your pet(s) involved in the big day, or create a slideshow of your fondest memories together?
Be proactive and consider options that will specifically suit the person you’re marrying and your relationship with them to bring a little extra “wow” to the wedding day.